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Life as many of us don't know it!

Leading a simple life has become quite complex these days. It is very often said by my mother and have heard it  from various other people that, being quiet and not interfering in others' matters is taken as a sign of being stupid and not what the people of this age do.
I am quite surprised that minding your work and going about your daily life is seen as a sign of being weak.
I am just not able to understand as to why people love to interfere and involve themselves in the lives of others.

People try to poke you to understand you as to why are you the way you are. Not being social is seen as being Anti-Social. Talking to selective people is seen as boycotting a few.

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